Some things that make it very annoying to me:
- She complains whenever she can’t find certain movies
- She usually searches using the complete video title in the search bar, it’s usually something like: Movie name - Complete Movie - Dubbed - Pirate Site or Uploader - Genre
- She has a list of saved movie/video titles in a .docx file, where she also writes whether she liked the movie or not. Whenever a YT search shows something she thinks she’ll be interested, she copies the title to the doc.
- Will usually use that same search on Netflix, or continue typing and adding more despite no search results showing already.
- Complains about video/audio quality
- Complains when there’s no dubbed version
- Complains when the “movie” is just a trailer repeating for 1 hour
- Seems to willfully ignore my explanations to why searching for and watching full movies on YT sucks (it’s pirate content on a platform that doesn’t allow piracy)
- Ignores some 🏴☠️ alternatives I’ve set up, because “there’s nothing interesting there”
- “Forgets” anything I teach her about searching and search terms in 5 minutes
To be fair, most of the movies she “wants” to watch aren’t available on any streaming services. Feels like I’m dealing with the world’s worst pirate.
Have you tried turning her off and on again?
This is definitely troubleshooting tip #1 but in this specific case I will advise against turning your mom on!
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The bond girl?
Maybe safer to just unplig and plug back in… I guess
I also would advise against plugging your mom
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Try breaking both of your arms.
Oh no, is this phrase going to follow us here from reddit?
God damnit…
Hahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣, I laughed way more than I should 🤣🤣🤣.
I hope this doesn’t come across as rude, but as someone who has an aunt that behaves VERY similar, I can only say that some people do not want solutions - they want to be mad about something and others to agree with them. Finding easy ways to remove the problem instead of being allowed to complain about it is the opposite of what they expect to achieve.
Not rude at all, and not the first time someone said something along those lines about my mom. I’ve heard the same from other relatives.
Ironically, you came here instead of asklemmy to complain about your mom.
Not looking for a solution, just complaining
Not interested in learning
Complains constantly
Wants things for free
Doesn’t deserve your help in this area.
Have you tried getting a better mom?
lol, this is such an capitalistic free market response 😅
Thank you
Funny enough, there’s a movie called Trading Mom about that, and it’s actually free on YouTube
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OPs mom was recalled he’s just too lazy to being her back in
So she’s like my mom who writes complete question phrases on Google and is pissed off that THE google doesn’t know the answer?
She’ll love Google’s AI then. Or hate it with a passion. It’s sometimes very useful or more dumb then the actual search results.
Looks like it, my brother from the same yet another mother
Have you tried setting up plex and then just putting in her requests?
Sounds frustrating to deal with
That would also be my go-to solution, except she wants hundreds of movies (in which case Plex also makes sense, but more for her than for OP).
plexJellyfin
Or set up Overseerr so she can request it herself. If you’re on a fast connection you can go from request to it being in Plex in about five minutes if set to auto approve.
My friend’s husband does this; he runs a plex server for their family, parents/in-laws, and a brother I think. As the nephew got older he started sending in his requests, too. He also set up an email address just for movie requests and wrote a script to crawl the email inbox and automatically download the top search result. It ended up requiring very little input on his end.
You wouldn’t download a Mom.
I downloaded your mom
I would also download this guys mom
You don’t have enough bandwidth
You mom downloaded me.
how is this your problem?
Sounds like mom complains because she likes to complain.
Choosing beggar pirate that’s also your mom? Oh brother, I do not envy you
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So teach her how to better pirate, don’t just plop it in front of her. Leave her an instructional document.
I’ve taught her the same things several times over. I’m not joking or using hyperbole. I’ve had her write down instructions herself about some things, like how to take screenshots and save images (she wrote that down three times, because she threw away the first 2 notebooks) - despite this, she still copies the image from Paint to Word in order to save it.
Is she forgetful in other ways, too? Could be there’s an underlying issue.
Check the Carbon Monoxide levels!
Not really, she was always very resistant to using computers. The real irony is that nowadays she spends most of her retired free time playing Hidden City and Jewels of Rome, despite me never showing her how to browser MS Store (she installed both from W10’s start menu ads)
Most couldn’t be bothered with your instruction they will just stick to the way they have invented
Feels like I’m dealing with the world’s worst pirate.
It is normal to get frustrated by technology you don’t understand. I know a bit about computers, but smartphones confuse and annoy me. Don’t worry too much about it.
I’d suggest [email protected] but you seem down on the idea and we don’t have many links there yet.
She doesn’t speak english
Seems like a good use case for the (very quiet now) [email protected] community
