• metallic_substance@lemmy.world
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      The only polite way is to lay on the horn non-stop while following them to their destination (so they know you’re there), when they stop, get out, approach them as quickly as possible (to be respectful of their time) to thank them for going

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      Yup. A quick tap of the horn or double tap is fine. Even a 1 second blast. Once we get into 2 seconds blast territory, it transitions to rude, with 3+ seconds going up linearly on the deranged jackass scale

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          I saw some video of an infuriatingly positive and giggly guy mod his horn this way. To add insult to injury iirc (which is about 50/50 after so many years) he used an arduino to do it. Video got a gazillion likes and many supporting comments. It unexpectadly became the last straw before deleting my facebook account.

          I know… I’m no fun.

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      A solid 10 second blast and a flash of your gun to let em know no funny business.

      Ya know, sane stuff

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    In my opinion, if sufficient time has passed… it was never rude. It’s rude to not pay attention and cause the last three cars to miss the light.

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        I feel like some people always have their hand hovering over the horn, just waiting for the light to turn green to smash their hand down on it.

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    Was it ever rude? Like, get going. Obviously need a wake up either way.

    As others have mentioned the way you honk can be rude. And honking too quickly.

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    I can’t believe just how many people are so nonchalant about anyone using their phone while driving.

    I never even reach for mine when I’m behind the wheel, even when stopped at a red light. Slippery slope, I want to keep that habit “clean” and doing that starts to slowly blur the line and make is harder for the habit to stick.

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    It’s not rude where I live. You generally give them a short double honk and then you see them wave in the mirror to say sorry as they start moving. I usually give 3-5 seconds before I do it.

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      Yea I mean, the 3-5 seconds is the only thing that matters here right? Fuck those assholes who sit on their horn .243 seconds after the light turns green like they are on a drag strip watching the tree.

      But if I’ve been sittin there for a few seconds and havnt realized the light has turned then I’m not gonna get upset about a short, light honk.

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    There have been times where I was genuinely grateful somebody honked at me because I was zoned at a green light so no I don’t think it’s rude as long as you’re not harassing the person

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    I have a whole protocol for this.

    You got a 5-count once there’s no one in front of you to go. Then you get a quick tap.

    Then you get a 2-count to start moving. Then you get a double tap.

    Then you get another 2-count. If you haven’t started moving by now, you get 1 tap every second until you fucking move for the love of fuck just fucking GO jesus tap-dancing christ in a Bethlaham drag show GO!!

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    It’s only rude if they’re moving. If they delay more than a second they obviously aren’t paying attention.

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      Since COVID I’ve seen more red light runners than the previous 20 years of driving. I wait long enough to check the oncoming traffic to see that they are slowing. I am not risking a tbone for 3 seconds.

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    Sometimes I honk, but I press the horn too hard so it does the BIG honk, instead of the little polite honk I wanted and then I feel like a jerk.

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    I like to be nice and give people at least thirty seconds, but I’m never in a hurry. I heavily pad driving times. I hate, hate, hate driving in a hurry. I’m usually a half hour early to everything.

    Conversely I find it super rude when people give me less than a few seconds to react to a light. There’s so much rude driving in general. Be polite and courteous on the road. Didn’t your mother ever teach you to be polite?