The issue with these statistics is that they look at the average, which is heavily boosted by the exceptionally expensive weddings of the higher upper-class. The median is significantly lower.
https://silkstemcollective.com/median-and-average-wedding-cost/
Also I’m not American, maybe people there just spend a lot more on weddings in general than what I’m used to.
THERE AREN’T COUGARS IN GARDENS! (It’s a reference, let’s see if someone gets it)