I only have Linux on my servers at home and at work, as well as on my laptop, and I agree with that, it’s arrogant and getting so damn old. Lemmy has such a boner for Linux and loves shoving it in everyone’s faces.

NextCloud is probably the best option but prepare to pay for storage. You’ll need a NAS with at least two HDDs and personally I would also pay for cold storage to have offsite backups in case something happens to both disks.

I’m going down that route now and at a glance, a 18TB setup will cost me at least $700 (local currency) all in all. ~$400 for the disks and another $300 for the server.