• orcrist@lemm.ee
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    3 months ago

    Sorry, no. Source: life experiences. It’s just you should clarify up front.

    • HexesofVexes@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      I think it goes further than that - post 35 (post 30 really) there is a lot more pressure to shift from casual dating to a relationship at a faster pace.

      Life experience talking here too, it isn’t just “being upfront”, it’s also being willing to move at a faster pace.