But do you not see the issue with needing hormonal intervention in order to “learn to love” your child? The hormonal fluctuations people experience after childbird can also cause postpartum depression and cause parents to be apathetic or even resentful towards their children.

If more focus was put towards the foster system then effort could be put towards making sure the right people get to adopt the right kids. There are lots of bio parents who never should have had kids, so that is far from something exclusive to adoptive parents.