• UNWILLING_PARTICIPANT@sh.itjust.works
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    9 months ago

    Surely there exists a middle ground between being devastated by rejection and not registering continuous rejection as, perhaps, a sign that the rejectors have a point.

    Emotional resilience is great, but if people keep giving you the same feedback maybe they have a point (and you should try changing, rather than brute forcing your way through social interactions, hoping to get lucky).

    I’m not saying that you’re denying this, so I am jumping over some discussion, but tbf I think we’re both doing it.