happens to the best of us. I’m single for nearly a month now and before the breakup we were together for over 8 years. Try not to worry too much and focus on yourself. Everything will work out in the end. :)
Yeah mine was 3.5 years. To be fair, I initiated it and I still think I made the right choice. But it’s really tough. It was definitely very special and I’ll miss parts of her for a long time. Doesn’t outweigh the emotional toll some of our mistakes had though. Definitely doesn’t help to care about her and also have to watch her heart get destroyed by my own choice :/
Hey, you and everyone reading this need to take something from me, work on yourself, get to know yourself, don’t put so much energy into others and eventually you won’t even want a relationship you’ll be too in love with yourself to let another into that dynamic and risk it.
Decades of relationships and this is a summary of what I’ve learned, don’t learn the hard way! Put yourself first asap, requiring another person for happiness is codependency at its finest, trust me I’ve been there.
Don’t fret, much of the population is codependent, they just haven’t realized it. It’s super duper common. Society has taught us that relationships are a necessity in life so when we’re not in one we feel inadequate. That’s not true. You have you, and you are valuable.
hits a little hard. broke off a long-term relationship a few months ago that I still feel
happens to the best of us. I’m single for nearly a month now and before the breakup we were together for over 8 years. Try not to worry too much and focus on yourself. Everything will work out in the end. :)
Yeah mine was 3.5 years. To be fair, I initiated it and I still think I made the right choice. But it’s really tough. It was definitely very special and I’ll miss parts of her for a long time. Doesn’t outweigh the emotional toll some of our mistakes had though. Definitely doesn’t help to care about her and also have to watch her heart get destroyed by my own choice :/
Hey, you and everyone reading this need to take something from me, work on yourself, get to know yourself, don’t put so much energy into others and eventually you won’t even want a relationship you’ll be too in love with yourself to let another into that dynamic and risk it.
Decades of relationships and this is a summary of what I’ve learned, don’t learn the hard way! Put yourself first asap, requiring another person for happiness is codependency at its finest, trust me I’ve been there.
Don’t fret, much of the population is codependent, they just haven’t realized it. It’s super duper common. Society has taught us that relationships are a necessity in life so when we’re not in one we feel inadequate. That’s not true. You have you, and you are valuable.