As I've aged, my interest in competitive multiplayer games has waned. I find that I have no interest in fighting other players online, that I don't really care about the score I get, and that having those things present in a game tends to pair me up with players I'd rather not play with…
Arma 3 offers a unique coop experience due to Arma’s nature. Worth a try if you have a group of friends to play with.